If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much – (Donald H. Rumsfeld).
Criticism hurts..Im jus being honest ..If smebdy is sayg NO, either they are TOO Matured or they are lying…
Yes I ve faced criticism... Who hasn’t ???
How do I handle it – If its fair,I take it..think it over…rectify myself…try to avoid it in future
If its unfair,still Im hurt…but once I have collected my senses, I jus laugh at the ignorance of the other person
There are criticisms which are rude- this is where Im trying to stay cool…For those under this category,I wud like them to read this….
“Don’t criticize what you don’t understand, son. You never walked in that man’s shoes.”
Lets stop blaming others and look within ourselves..Take full responsibility.Its easier said than done..Its easy to find fault..sometimes it becomes a habit..Sometimes we even endup criticizing the way somebody eats or speaks.We focus on minuscules and find fault with smallest of the issues.
We have seen this group of people who complain...jus coz they have to..to be in the limelight..to get that undue attention..They don look at the crux and turn a blind eye and a deaf ear !!
Do u think you can live in a world where everybody can think or act the way you do??Rather than criticizing or finding fault, lets try to respect the differences!!Stop blaming and look within urself and try to bring abt a change .Everything in this world keeps changing...
We all are happy being in a comfort zone..Im sure we wud have heard a lot of them say, “ This is the way Iam !!”.These are people who expect others to follow their footsteps and shy away from changes.Life is all about adjustments and accommodations !! You move a step ahead and the other person will run towards you !!Have an open arm ...you can embrace a flock..A closed arm can only embrace U !!
Lets divert our resources in to exploring the situation and implementing the change rather than finding fault.Like a small child explores… Have you ever seen a small child not wanting to try out something new ?They all are always on their toes…Lets Replicate it…
Break the comfy web…Push urself out..Be there..Be the change !!
“Be the change you want to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi
Now, after all these...what I like to do more and hear more...APPRECIATIONS !! ;-))
Mother Theresa Says,"There is more hunger in the world for love and appreciation in this world than for bread." We can be no exceptions too !!!